Contribute to the growth of your child

I am a father to eight years old son. My entire life revolves around my son only. Like any other father in this world, I also try to do whatever is best possible to provide facilities and comfort to my child. To arrange these all I have compromise and scarification with my personal dreams and aspirations. Another pillar of my son’s life is his mother. Her complete life is devoted to her son only.

In my understanding, nothing is exceptional in this. Every parent has the same kind of feeling for their kids and they try to provide the best to their loved once. In the Indian context, this our culture and it transfers geriaction by generation as a gift.  

In spite of so much of effort in children upbringing, handwork in making them a gentle and kind human being, every day many parents come to my share their feedback about their tanager’s unexpected behaviour and their way of living life. The common problems parents share about their teenagers are ….

-        They don’t have respect for elders to direct and extended family

-        They feel parents have less knowledge than them

-        Not serious about a healthy lifestyle

-        They have a focus on everything apart from studies

-        They don’t share their personal life issues with parents

Studies say, above, all kinds of behaviour are not just coincident. Its result of what parents taught them unconsciously, while these kids were bringing and becoming teenagers.  The concept is, how, parents behave with small kids and the other family members and in society, becomes the behaviour of your child latter.

Generally, parents are not conscious of how they are responding to the situations in front of kids. Kids learn through observation. Whatever incidence comes in their observation the first time, they learn some lesson and store in their mind. Till the age of seven years a kid develops almost all the basic formulas of their life which they are going to use the rest of their life. After that, they just put values in learnt formulas and conclude.

In order to develop good behavioural habits in your kids take care of below basic points so that learn the right lessons and live their rest of the life more humbly and gently.

-        Parents, shouldn't argue with each other in front of kids, even though they are too small, even one month old as well

-        Parents should respect each other. Don’t try to prove your partner wrong  

-        Listen to each and every question of your kid, very carefully and answer them, until they get satisfied

-        Answer your kid's questions with the complete explanation

-        In front of any guest at home, introduce your kids first. They feel respected and valuable

-        Always appreciate kids in front of others.

-        Don’t share any weakness of your kid with anyone in front of him

-        Appreciate the quality, which you want to increase in their personality

-        Appreciate their every small effort, if they try to correct the things

-        Don’t start and end your kid’s day with high volume and shouting

-        At the time of sleeping hug them and make them realize that you have forgiven their all the mistakes, happened during the day

-        Demonstrate in your behaviour, whatever you expect from them

-        Whatever you want to teach them, do you first and maintain consistency

-        Instead of pushing the kid to do study, you take a book and start reading

-        Instead of asking kids to switch off tv, first, you do something valuable and then ask them

-        Don't miss any chance to make them realize that you love them a lot and they are first in your life 

Such kind of many things is there which you can develop in your kids. It will develop good habits in your kids and latter it will inculcate in their personality. This creates respect for their parents and finally develop them as a good citizen          

Any kind of discomfort in life at the physical, mental, emotional or social level is just misalignment of our-self with nature. Physical diseases are nothing but a misbalance of five elements in the body (Earth, Fire, Water, Air, and Space).
Physical disease:
Let’s try to understand life science based on five elements of the human body. Our body is made up of the above five elements. Broadly the basic structure like sacaton, bones, nails of our body is made by the earth elements. The food or the product of soil is directly linked with aforesaid organs. Imbalance / unnatural diet is responsible for diseases related to our body’s basic structure. Fire aliment is to digest the food and generate the right equilibrium of chemicals needed to operate the body and function. Water is the element to maintain the temperature of the body and liquid base functioning.  
Remedy in case of Physical disease: Need to take a balanced diet and exercise, proper water and fresh air. Exercise specifically for Spine.
Mental / Emotional dis-balance:
It sounds that mental imbalance is about madness which is not fully the truth. Yes, extreme imbalance of mind maybe that level but what I am talking about mental imbalance is any of the states of mind when we don’t feel the perfect balance of logical and emotional thinking and. Ok, so that element which is directly responsible for mental status is Air. Improper way of breathing, breathing in an unhealthy environment, the incomplete cycle of breathing.
Remedy: Spend time near trees and the natural environment. Breathing exercise (Pranayam: a complete set of the proper way of breathing. Refer to Paranayam / Anulom – Vilom on google). Any other exercise-related with respiratory system
The final element is space which is liked with the consciousness of a human being. Lack of space element in human life can create a lack of consciousness, which is about a feeling of unity with the universe, feeling if loneliness, dis-attachment from nature. Lack of harmony and joy.
Remedy: Meditation and positive thoughts. Practice Meditation and sitting with enlighten great peoples, reading and following real spiritual books and understanding existence life and prayer.  
There are many other ways to create a balance of above five elements of human life but they all come in external healing i.e. Reiki healing, Crustal healing, Sound healing, water, and air-based therapies, etc.

Most of the times what reason we understand the problem is not the actual reason. These are just symptoms that appear at a superficial level and we called them the life issue.

Problem Statement by client:

Unhealthy relationship between husband and wife due to the effect of some external/foreign energy on the wife’s physical body.  

Brief, case history:

Savitri (changed name) is a 40 years old lady from a well-qualified and well to do family, living family life with a husband and two young children of the age of nine and thirteen years at Jabalpur city, Madhya Pradesh, India.

Savitri’s husband visited us along with his wife (Savitri) and shared that she is in effect of some external soul and due to this external soul sometimes she behaves very abruptly. Even many times she abused her husband physically attacked on his as well.

Analysis:

When I deeply analyzed the subject the root cause of problem was not external/foreign energy but that was her suppressed anger to her husband and in-laws from years and years which she couldn’t express in any way and latter the anger has reached to the level when the words and are less to get revenge or answer the husband. Whenever Savitri teased she couldn’t control her anger and started expressing her emotions in some physical way.

Solution:

• Savitri: Deep meditation therapy and reprogramming of subconscious
• Savitri’s husband: Made him understand the root cause of the problem and what needs to take care
• Husband & wife: Family counselling   

Result:

Enjoying a happy married life from children from the last six months

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If you are a corporate employee or somehow connected with the private sector through business or channel partner employees, I am sure that you are going through the tough phase of your career. This might have an everyday question in your mind that what is next if I lose my job? How I will manage my personal and family expenses? Will I get a new job in this middle age? Are my work experience and education sufficient to get a new job? Would it be possible for me to demonstrate high energy, even if I get a new job? And finally, what if I have to sit at home without any job?

If you have such kinds of questions in your mind don’t feel alone. This is the biggest challenge of all the private sector employees nowadays.

Due to slowdown in the global market, most of the corporate employees between the age of thirty-five and forty-five are going through a tough phase of their career.

There is a specific reason why only this age category? When you reach this middle phase of career, neither you are senior management with high decision making nor in the category of junior, who is very less salary paid and high energy employee.

The Indian market also not untouched with these crises and we also have adopted western philosophy of higher and fire. When the business goes through tough finical phases, the best possible cost-cutting is manpower cost. For example, if organization want to save INR 10 million, it’s quite difficult to bring down the product cost, since row material cost, logistic, technology, utilities are fixed, but to save the same amount through manpower cutting is respectively easy. If an organization removes five employees of 2 million, cost recovers.

Anyway, these all are the business strategies and will continue according to the market situation. For us, the important point is how to over the challenge if someone loss his job?

My first and foremost point is, you would not be in the list of manpower cutting if you are made for the job. Yes, you read very correctly. If your personality, your behaviour, your skill, and knowledge matches with your job, you are safe. There are people who are made to do the job only.

Now the question is how you will know that, whether you are suitable for this job or not? Evaluate yourself and the below question to yourself.

1. Do you feel that when you have started your job, you have taken this decision out of your chose or just to satisfy family society?
2. Do you feel energetic when you wake up in the morning and think of the office?
3. Do you feel that you wanted to do something, which profession doesn’t have money?
4. If this profession was not your choice than what did you wanted to do?
5. If someone credits your monthly budget in your bank account, would you like to do this job?
6. What is there, which stopes me to do something else to earn?

These all the questions will give you the answer that what is there for which you have made. If you would have chosen that path in career, you wouldn’t have a job threat in your mind. You have reached this condition of job crises because you are not made to these all which you have chosen as a career and now suffering mid-career job challenge.

Identify yourself, your inner zeal, your passion, your life path and take action to achieve it. Believe me, you will be the master of your field and your life …. Live life asking, not bagger. Offer jobs to other not line-up for searching for a job ….

Take help from Life / Executive Coach in your reach, who can bring you out practically from the mesh of your life and help you in achieving freedom of life. Sounds quite unbelievable but it's true, think and take step … all the best

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It’s a very common saying in our daily life that “Enjoy, we get only one life”, which is partially correct. Yes, we have got this body first and last time, if our understanding is limited to the only physical body. But we all know that we are not only this physical body. We are much much more than this.

For simple understanding, broadly we can divide human beings into three bodies 1. Physical body 2. Energy body and 3. Astral body

1. Physical body: We all know that what is the physical body. Al the organs are internal and external.
2. Energy Body: Have you thought that what is the basic difference between a dead body and a live human? The difference is the presence of life energy in live human, if this is not, we called it dead body. Now the question is what is this life energy? For simple understanding, we can say the whatever activities we perform in our daily lives are driven by life energy only i.e. seeing, hearing, talking, feeling, thinking, sensing, etc.
3. Astral body: This body is beyond the visible physical body and sensible energy body, which is a simple consciousness. This is the thing which is been elaborated in “Shreemad Bhagwat Geeta” very deeply. This body never destroys. It’s not time-bounded. Consciousness just travels body to body, birth by birth. Consciousness carries its current life experiences to the next life.

The physical body and energy body is been provided to experience life. Now the question is, what is the meaning is the “we” in the above sentence? This we are consciousness or for understanding, we say (third body) Astral body.

Let’s come to the point: There are so many things in our life, for which we don’t find any logical reason. i.e. how we think, how we behave, how we feel, sometimes physical illness, mental or emotional status, etc. You might have seen two persons brought up in the same environment but they are completely different. Such kind of difference in us everyone is because of the memories out consciousness carries from past lives learning and experiences.

Common examples of such kind of past memories challenges are a phobia, depression, particular kind of recitative pattern in life as (accidents, nightmares, extreme level of emotions about something or someone, etc)

Past Life Regression is the name of therapy, which helps people to work upon the above kind of issues. It’s impossible to treat such issues through any kind of medicine in the world.

In this column, I will share the cases on which is worked and resolve the issues, due to past life memories.

The purpose is creating awareness in people that issues which sometimes we commonly understand mental illness or effect of some external soul, are out of these all but the subject of past life regression therapy.

Also it will develop sense in people that don’t think that this is not the only life, don’t just focus on your own desire on this life, but think broadly and understand that whatever experiences and memories you will carry from this life will become your coming life, in the same way as whatever you are today is because of your past life memories and experiences.

Privacy is right of every individual and we have a confidentiality agreement with subjects, so we don’t disclose the name and place, but all the stories which I will share in this column are real and tread successfully.

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Today story in Brief about 38 years old guy Kamlesh (changed name) how lost her nine years old daughter, without any logical reason at Nashik (changed place name).

Love and affection are in the list of good emotions, but sometimes it transforms into a painful life as well.

The daughter which Kamlesh lost in this life was his mother some lives back. Due to so much emotional attachment between son and mother brought again in the relation and experienced the uncompleted desire of living with each other, which was the last emotion at the time of their separation/death.

After the PRL Session Kamlesh shared that really her daughter was very careful about him. She used to treat his father like his mother only.

The most important achievement of this therapy session was, Kamlesh has realized that his daughter’s death had some past life connection. It gave a new prospect of seeing life in a more holistic way. He realizes that the human life journey is not limited only with current life but its long journey of multiple lives.

Now Kamlesh is in peace from inside and accepted the tragedy and looking for a good part of the life

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Overeating is one of the strongest reasons behind obesity but have you thought that if we all know the reason where is the gap that we are not able to control?
To control your bodyfat, If you visit any dietician, they will recommend a long list that what to eat, what not to eat in which quantity and at what time. You listen to these all, happily come back to the home with a prescription and start practising it. Everything goes fine for a couple of weeks. One fine day you lose your control and start eating everything again.
I know that and I very much agree with you that it’s not your mistake. you dint want to do that.
I tell you how your thought process and mind play role in this trap, and how to control and overcome your over eating-related challenges.
According to Indian ancient yogic science, there are seven energy-generating points in the human energy system which are called chakras. The centre points of these chakras start from the genital area and end up at top of the head. The third chakra from the bottom, Solar Plexus is responsible for your craving for food the entire digestive system. Imbalanced energies of Solar Plexus generate craving at your mind which is no need for your body. It’s purely at the mental level.
In any of the ways, if you know how to maintain and align the energy of Solar Plexus, you will surprise that automatically the demand for eating will vanish.
There are several ways of balancing Solae Plexus energies but the easiest and effective way is, energy balancing through crystals.
There are specific crystals in crystal therapy science, which are capable enough to main your all the chakras and solar plexus as well. To know about Crystal Healing and therapies, please refer column Crystal Healing on www.lifesimplified.in

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Tips for Healthy Relationship with Spouse

There is no word like “Perfect Relationship”, in a healthy relationship, they feel good about the relationship most of the time. A healthy relationship takes more than a normal attraction — it needs efforts, and both of you will have to be willing to put in the effort it. Sharing some tips for building and maintain a healthy relationship
Love yourself.
Being comfortable with who you are means you are a happier partner.
Communicate.
Share feelings with your partner. Ask questions, listen and try to understand their points. If you’re upset, don’t make your partner try to figure out what’s up. Talking about problems develops trust and makes your relationship stronger.
Be honest.
Be truthful with each other about whatever you do. Honesty develops trust. Few things harm a relationship more than lies.
Give each other some space.
A couple’s time is great, but spending ALL your time together isn’t.
Agree to disagree.
It’s ok if she or he is not agreed with your opinion. The important thing is to respect each other’s opinions and ideas.
Forgive and ask for forgiveness.
accept your partner’s apologies and be willing to apologize for yours and. Everybody makes mistakes.
Support each other.
When your partner does something great, tell them! Your partner should do the same for you.
Talk about sex…honest ad openly
Telling your partner what likes and what you like and don’t like helps you have better sex. consent is a must, don’t push your partner into doing something they don’t want.

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